#4 Raw & Rich Emotional Waves – The 12-22 Individual Wave, Trusting the Timing & Sweetening the Deal with Suzanne Montalbano
In this episode I’m joined by Suzanne, a 4/6 Emotional Manifesting Generator. Suzanne shares her journey to accepting, honouring and trusting the emotional timing of her life. We dive deep into discussion about the power of allowing your emotions to ebb and flow through your life and the consequences of keeping them suppressed. We dig into the emotional need to be witnessed and held in our process but not to be fixed or saved. Emotions are about relating and connecting to others and as emotional beings your emotions are an inseparable part of who you are. We discuss the responsibility of being emotional. Allowing yourself to feel and express in a way that aligns with your integrity and keeps you out of the not-self. We also discuss how waiting out your wave often “sweetens the deal”, the deep creative power of emotions and enjoying the rich depth they can provide in your life. Suzanne leaves us with beautiful advice for living and loving your individual emotional wave.
Suzanne is a Human Design reader. Suzanne uses your unique human design to walk you home, to reconnect you to who you deeply know you are. She uses the map of your highest potential illuminating a clear view of the direction and wisdom within yourself, ultimately upgrading your life’s journey with more opportunity, ease, and the permission to melt into exactly who you are.
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(02:20) Suzanne shares how she discovered Human Design on a podcast and her initial resonance with her type and strategy.
(04:39) How the basics of Human Design will always be the most important and impactful.
(05:42) Suzanne’s journey into her emotional authority with the 22/12 channel and moving through emotions.
(08:44) Embracing your emotional wave and allowing the intensity of your emotional experience.
(10:24) Holding your emotions and moods with honour.
(11:24) The moodiness in the 22/12 channel and the experience of the spike wave.
(13:24) Learning to love and accept your emotional process. Being responsible for allowing your feelings in every moment.
(14:44) How your emotional wave is supporting you.
(16:24) Repairing damage after an emotional outburst and how to avoid it.
(20:01) The individual wave of emotions that wants to be witnessed and seen.
(21:45) The solar plexus as the centre of relating and connecting.
(23:39) Your emotional authority is part of who you are and finding the people who recognize your emotionality.
(24:29) Finding grace in the lows of the wave and how it builds the richness and beauty in your life.
(26:07) Using the emotional wave as a decision making process.
(26:41) Combining the emotional wave with a sacral response as a Manifesting Generator.
(27:44) Comparing being an emotional authority and being a jedi.
(30:59) Waiting for clarity, sweetening the deal and the energetic vacuum.
(34:00) Anything that cannot wait for your clarity was never your decision to make and how this lessens your decisions as an emotional authority.
(36:09) Making the emotional wave authority a fun experience.
(38:04) Certainty does not exist as an emotional being.
(40:53) The high and low spikes and melancholy in the individual wave.
(46:09) The creativity that lives in the emotional waves.
(48:15) Suzanne shares her advice for embracing the 12/22 impulsive emotional wave..
- Rachael Ami