#9 Learning to Love Your Definition of Identity – The Defined & Undefined G Centre in Real Life with Suzanne Montalbano
In this episode I’m joined once again by Suzanne, a 4/6 Emotional Manifesting Generator, and we dive deep into conversation all about the G centre, the centre of identity, purpose, direction & self love. Suzanne, with a defined G, shares how she navigates life with a deep sense of knowing who she is, while still allowing space for adventure in the inbetween. We discuss how this centre can show up in relationships, in healthy and unhealthy expressions. I share my experience of learning to love my undefined G, accepting that who I am right now is enough and my purpose lies in being “beautifully lost” not in necessarily knowing the direction I’m going in. We discuss how you may struggle to relate to the defined or undefined G, depending on your definition. We talk about trusting who you are, in your soul at your core, and how your G centre allows you to express that in a uniquely perfect way. I share a lot of visuals such as rivers and inner tubes, daddy long legs and wearing hats that you definitely don’t want to miss! We end this episode with beautifully loving and supportive advice for the defined (from Suzanne) and the undefined (from Rachael).
Suzanne is a Human Design reader. Suzanne uses your unique human design to walk you home, to reconnect you to who you deeply know you are. She uses the map of your highest potential illuminating a clear view of the direction and wisdom within yourself, ultimately upgrading your life’s journey with more opportunity, ease, and the permission to melt into exactly who you are.
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(02:38) Suzanne shares her experience of having a defined G and realising not everyone has that natural energy.
(04:29) Rachael shares the relationship of defined Gs creating the “flow” and the undefined Gs floating along for as long as they like.
(08:19) Wanting others to understand who you are when you can’t really define it yourself. Releasing the pressure for others to see deeply into you with an undefined G.
(10:05) The rigidity of “identity” with a defined G centre and the opportunity to surrender.
(11:41) Releasing the need to commit to a direction and trust in the present moment.
(13:22) The connection between the environment and the undefined G centre.
(15:29) The defined G and being in “feeling like me” environments.
(16:41) Style and how it differs with G definition.
(19:55) The journey to finding yourself when you’re not sure who you are.
(21:45) Choosing your identity as an undefined G.
(22:56) Creating games with your struggles in your Human Design chart.
(23:59) Confusion when relating with the opposite definition. Undefined Gs as “shape-shifters” when in relationship with others.
(26:33) The unhealthy expression of the open/undefined G.
(27:45) The need for aloneness but also in connection as a Projector or a split definition.
(30:34) Knowing when to share your direction as a defined G and the projected channels towards the throat.
(32:52) Electromagnetically defining the 1-8 channel and how they show up in each of our lives.
(36:35) Allowing yourself to be lost and having trust in your journey.
(38:14) Taking life less seriously.
(40:12) Advice for the defined G.
(41:54) Advice for the undefined G.
- Rachael Ami