#11 Finding Beautiful Hypocrisy in the Defined Head & Ajna – Moving through fixedness & softening opinions with Kate Marolt
In this episode I’m joined by Kate, a ⅗ Self-Projected Projector to discuss life with a defined head and ajna. We discuss how it feels to live life with a lot of mental energy, especially as 2 non-sacral beings. We share the experience of having a “fixed” set of questions and ideas and ways of processing the information we hold. As defined heads and ajnas we are both here to sit with our own information and process them our own way. Kate shares how this fixedness can cause her to get stuck in her own mind revisiting the same information and coming to the same answers over and over again when out of alignment. We talk a lot about the permission to not be under pressure when in relationship with open or undefined head centres and how important it can be to verbalise this permission in conversation. We shares different defined head and ajna quirks and the beauty that can be found in hypocrisy and deciding what is worth your mental energy. We also chat opinions, asking others for advice, predicting the plot of the movie and creating within our fixedness. Plus the 42-23, Genius to Freak channel, and how this energy can cause pressure to build that needs to be released so it does not turn inwards. We share the feelings of betrayal that can surface when we know the correct answer for us, via our authority, but do not take the correct actions. Finally, Kate gives her advice for those who need some permission to be fixed right now.
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(02:29) How Kate first learnt about Human Design whilst working as an assistant to a business coach.
(03:28) Human Design as an opportunity to live differently.
(04:08) Why jumping into the deep end of Human Design is not the most impactful thing you can do. Strategy and Authority will always be the most important.
(06:34) Life with a defined head and ajna as energies that work together.
(08:53) Comparing the experience of the undefined head and ajna.
(10:09) Learning to not pressure yourself to find mental clarity. Finding time to let the energy settle.
(12:11) How “answers” are just a single option not the “correct” option.
(12:46) Experiencing the fixedness of the defined head and ajna.
(14:35) Finding identity in opinions with an undefined G centre.
(17:05) Saving your energy for the things you want to have an opinion on.
(18:38) Recognizing others’ need for time and space when deciding on ideas, inspiration and opinions.
(20:43) Fixedness and not being able to see another’s point of view.
(23:18) Releasing the need to see others’ points of view.
(25:13) Finding the balance between openness and fixedness.
(27:11) Being aware of how you are impacting and bringing pressure to others when you hold this energy.
(29:08) Exploring certainty, being wrong and releasing attachment to being correct.
(32:08) There are no right or wrong answers in life. Permission to choose what you think about.
(33:38) Processing for creating and organising when working in teams.
(36:13) The 61-24, the Stream of Knowing and looking into the past for answers.
(37:38) Holding the “confusion” of Gate 64 and creating the space to hold onto information in order to come to a realisation.
(38:58) Pattern recognition, the crown gathering pieces together and the ajna creating the puzzle.
(39:51) The 43-23, the need for the invitation and judgement of certainty.
(41:25) The individual energy in the genius to freak channel and seeking a release to the information.
(44:38) When you can invite your brain and logic into your authority.
(45:20) Mental processing and emotional authority working through things together.
(46:13) Not following your authority and feeling like you’ve betrayed yourself.
(47:38) Seeking other’s opinions is not useful.
(49:52) Kate shares her advice for feeling powerful and healthy with a defined ajna.
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